{"id":3199,"date":"2018-01-29T14:33:01","date_gmt":"2018-01-29T14:33:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/enlightenmente.com\/?p=3199"},"modified":"2019-03-11T09:12:49","modified_gmt":"2019-03-11T09:12:49","slug":"career-post-sample","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/enlightenmente.com\/?p=3199","title":{"rendered":"Why Do People Procrastinate?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<article id=\"post-3130\" class=\"single-post post-3130 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-meditation-and-mindfulness category-soul-searching\">\n<div class=\"single-post-content\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-large wp-image-3200\" src=\"http:\/\/enlightenmente.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sample-career-1024x652.jpg\" alt=\"sample-career\" width=\"669\" height=\"426\" srcset=\"https:\/\/enlightenmente.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sample-career-1024x652.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/enlightenmente.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sample-career-600x382.jpg 600w, https:\/\/enlightenmente.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sample-career-300x191.jpg 300w, https:\/\/enlightenmente.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sample-career-768x489.jpg 768w, https:\/\/enlightenmente.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sample-career-500x318.jpg 500w, https:\/\/enlightenmente.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sample-career.jpg 1100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 669px) 100vw, 669px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Leo Babauta\u2019s <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><em>Zen To Done: The Ultimate Simple Productivity System<\/em>, he states, \u201cIf you really want to do something, you\u2019ll work like hell to get it done. You\u2019ll work extra hard, you\u2019ll put in even more hours, &#8230;It\u2019s for work that you don\u2019t really care about that you procrastinate.\u201d <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #000000;\">At first glance I agreed with Leo and ultimately I believe in what he is saying. He is talking about taking action. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #000000;\">If no action is taken, it doesn\u2019t matter how great your ideas or how genuine your intentions. Why then do some people procrastinate on things they DO care about? <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why do people put off actions in line with their values that they know <\/span><\/i><b><i>SHOULD <\/i><\/b><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">be their top priority? <\/span><\/i><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why do people <\/span><\/i><b><i>fail to take action<\/i><\/b><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> even though they think and feel that they should?\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #000000;\">Procrastination is an interesting thing. According to Tony Robbins, people procrastinate because of fear of two things:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><b>Fear of Success<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Sounds crazy eh? \u00a0In some cases people fear that they will be successful and along with that comes some negative emotions and pain such as: hurting people\u2019s feelings, surpassing those around you, being accused of thinking you are better than others, losing relationships, dealing with more stress or pressure that you correlate with success, and the list goes on. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><b>Fear of Failure-<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> That sounds more like it. We all know that sometimes, people procrastinate because they are afraid to fail and along with that comes some negative emotions and pain such as: feeling unloved or inadequate, proving to be incompetent, losing money or time, feeling hopeless, rejection, etc.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #000000;\">Robbins is also well known for his idea of Pain and Pleasure associations. This psychology plays a role in procrastination in two ways:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>People Associate Pain with Taking Action-<\/strong> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to Robbins, many times when people don\u2019t do something it is because they associate more pain with doing it than not doing it. For example, putting off an important phone call may be due to the anticipation of feeling sadness, anger, stress, or guilt when giving or receiving news. Failing to eat healthy or exercise might be due to us seeing those things as a painful process. Sometimes we associate our actions with causing pain for other people and that is a reason we put things off. Not causing others pain seems like a good thing&#8230;right? It can be, but if you live your life worrying about the pain you might cause, you wouldn\u2019t do anything. Your success could cause others to feel jealousy or inadequacy, but that shouldn\u2019t prevent you from taking action and achieving your goals. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>People Associate Pleasure with NOT Taking Action-<\/strong> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Other times people don\u2019t do something because they associate more pleasure with not doing it than doing it. Watching TV instead of exercising, eating donuts instead of broccoli, or denying the truth because avoidance yields a more pleasurable relationship, and the list goes on. If we are experiencing pleasure, why would we do something different that we associate with pain?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #000000;\">So procrastination is not just something that happens as a result of not caring. Sometimes we do it when we care a great deal. If we tell ourselves, \u201cOh I must be procrastinating because I don\u2019t care.\u201d Then we will never uncover the deeper issue behind our inaction.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #000000;\">Are you procrastinating on taking the next step of something?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #000000;\">What are some fears of success or failure that might be driving you? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #000000;\">How do pain and pleasure play a role in your inaction?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #000000;\">Uncover some of the truth behind what is holding you back. Then\u2026.take action!!<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"row cshero-row-quote\"><span class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-10 col-lg-8 col-md-offset-1 col-lg-offset-2 cs-quote-style-1\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">EnlightenMENTE&#8217;s six phase<\/span> <a href=\"http:\/\/enlightenmente.com\/?page_id=3944\/#em-commit-program\"><span style=\"color: #007fff;\">Commit to Thrive<\/span><\/a> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">program is geared towards helping people live more deliberately. Coming to terms with tasks for which you are procrastinating is part of that process. Commit to Thrive helps people declutter all areas of their life and create the time, space, and energy to invite the events, circumstances and people you truly desire to bring into your surroundings.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_empty_space height=&#8221;72px&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] &nbsp; In Leo Babauta\u2019s Zen To Done: The Ultimate Simple Productivity System, he states, \u201cIf you really want to do something, you\u2019ll work like hell to get it done. 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